For all of you out there reading my thoughts and activities on my blog, have you ever thought about what it is you want in a Mistress?  I understand that I am attractive, of course I am, I am a Goddess in heels.  But is that all you look for?

I am amazed at how many times people are unexpectedly surprised that I am not a "bubble headed trixie in a domme costume."  For the most part I love playing with my toys.  I love laughing and responding and being articulate.  It's why I love bratty boys and girls because I get to challenge them and then take them to a place they may not expect to go.  I like to push boundaries.  And most of all I love to enjoy myself.

Are there so many "trixie's" out there that give Dommes a bad name?  I feel sorry for the subs and slaves that think that an Escort, or stripper that puts on a leather outfit and carries a whip is actually a Domme.  And I am not by any means suggesting that ladies in those professions can't be a legitimate Domme, but that any woman who thinks "I can be a Domme" just automatically makes her one because she has the outfit is NOT going to provide the most interesting, level or safe experience.

When I first identified as a Professional Domme vs. my play in the lifestyle, I had many issues with people not trusting that I wouldn't be a flake.  Not that 90% of you aren't considered "wankers" when you call and try to play me or book without intention of having the session, etc.  But I focused on my skills, trained under experienced dommes and experimented on my own toys and on myself so I could learn the best way of doing things for the most fantastic experience possible.

I believe that my toys should enjoy themselves as I see fit.  I want to see your reaction, your pain, your pleasure, your humiliation, your servitude.  But I am not going to "service" you.  Do not call me with a menu, however if you have a particular fantasy that is compatible with my own pleasures I will be happy to meet and see if our energy fits.  I expect serious inquiries for some kinky intense sessions.  You may call me but remember I choose to meet with you.  I expect you to be respectful, sincere, and willing to let me take you on a fantastic journey of self discovery.

I am an edge player.  I like the extreme as well as the sensual.  I love my toys.  If you wish to become one of them do so without expecting me to drop everything when you call.  You are at my service and pleasure not the other way around.  Your time with me will be memorable, I guarantee that.  I will not allow you to be disrespectful.

For those select toys out there I am the only Mistress you will ever need.  We share a unique experience and I will punish your transgressions and reward your submission.  So ask yourself, are you everything that I am looking for in a client?